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越来越觉得，人是被遗憾拖累老的。“如果那时候能再努力一点”、“如果那时候不那么幼稚”、“如果那时候……”，一切就不一样了吧。虽然这样的想法常常只是短暂的瞬间，但不可避免地在心脏留下一道道刮痕，于是觉得累了，于是觉得拥有的都没有意义。大声训斥以前的自己之后发现根本没有这样的资格，那才是最无力的。
不能回头，没法回头，每每想起这点，从眼眶到左胸腔都一阵泛酸。人就是这样变老的吧。
越往前走，就会有越多的遗憾。我们只有一回的人生，但是面临的N岔路口却太多太多。那么到底是如何下决定的呢。以前觉得做选择是件很慎重的事，现在看来，没有多了不起。哪条路看上去平坦一公分，哪条路飘来好闻的香气，甚至哪条路旁有认识的人挥手，都可能左右我们的决定。就是因为这样，很可能我们最后走的那条路和原先设想的已经相差十万八千里了。但这是没办法的，因为不能回头嘛。了解到这一点，就会想勉励自己，勇敢地往前走吧，无论选择哪个路口，只要确保进去后能好好享受沿途的风光，就算值得了。
话虽这么说，但还是忍不住想，“如果那时候XX一点”，一切就不一样了……
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Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up:
If a guy punches you,he likes you.
Never try to trim your own bangs.
And someday you will meet a wonderful guy,
and get your very own happy ending.Every movie we see,every story we're told,implores us to wait for it.
The third act twist:The unexpected declaration of love.The exception to the rule.
But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending,
we don't learn how to read the signs.
How to tell the ones who wants us from the ones who don't.
The ones who will stay from the ones who will leave.And maybe this happy ending doesn't include a wonderful guy.
Maybe it's you,on your own,picking up the pieces and starting over.
Freeing yourself up for something better in the future.Maybe the happy ending is just moving on.
Or maybe the happy ending is this:
Knowing that through all the unreturned phone calls and broken hearts,
through all the blunders and misread signals,
through all of the pain and embarrassment.
you never,ever gave up hope.
——<He's Just Not That Into You>
